Your problems are known, understood and accepted.
The real solution is not to solve them, as another problem will surely appear in its place, but to enquire into the one who has the problem, and discover that this personal self is a phantom, one whom does not, cannot, really exist.
With the dissolution of the ego, is the dissolution of its problems.
Know that you are the Self, the One Consciousness; All That Is.
Life, sans personal self, is Sat Chit Ananda; Being, Consciousness, Bliss.